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Monday Delight :Self Love

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Self-love use to mean being arrogant, selfish,conceited and feeling flawless.when someone showed or had the impression of having love for ones self many people took it to be a wrong thing to do.         However, self love doesn't mean being arrogant, selfish and having vain pride,it simply means caring for yourself,respecting yourself and taking responsibility for yourself.         Many people develop low self esteem when they get rejected by their loved ones,get hurt from their past relationships, experience physical and emotional torture n lots more.         When you don't love yourself you become depressed,Weak,feel sorry for yourself, regret all your actions even if it was the right thing to do, unhappy, withdrawn from your daily activities etcetera.          Moreover, if you love yourself you would be confident,strong, Happy,do extraordinary things because self love helps to bring the very best out of you.when you love yourself, even when you have a big scar on your

Must you catch the bride's bouquet at a wedding?

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Biko it's not compulsory, Ah Ah some ladies just end up embarrassing themselves all in the name of catching flowers. Some even go to the wedding reception prayerfully, like Seriously?? On top wetin. Though I heard from the oyinbo perspective it brings good luck, that is, the bride will get married soon too.         I remember one wedding I attended, and at the reception the MC called the single ladies out for the bouquet throwing, Hnmmmmm I just saw the chief brides maid changing the bouquet to one wretched flower like that,in my mind I was like that flower can only bring badluck. Why they don't throw their bouquet again I don't know. Wharefa it's not my business. That reminds me of one flower I saw a bride holding, that one looked like a mixture of bitterleaf and ugwu leaf with ribbon at the end. To every bride getting married today May God bring you unending joy in your marriage. Amen! 

Topsy-turvy Thursday

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Life is cruel! So many people say it often and that is because of the various challenges they face. Thousand of people have died in the north,many are still dying,some are walking dead because they lose their loved once, their property, and lots more. In this present dispensation, lot of evils happen,there is retrenchment of workers at various firm,how would Do they survive? meanwhile responsibilities keeps increasing..... but have got good news for you             Life is beautiful, it's sweet, it's awesome, it's adventurous,it's filled with all What you wish for with JESUS in your situation. He knows you before you were born, before you were even conceived He knew you, he knew your journey how smooth it will be and how rough it would be. That is Why you need Him to put you through,whatever your situation, no matter the height of your challenges He knows it all, He is the alpha and the omega (the beginning and the end).              However, you might want to as

Monday Delight

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Yay! It's Monday again, someone somewhere might not be Happy that it's Monday again, Maybe you had a stressful weekend,Maybe you have kids to help prepare for school and you would have to go to work too, Maybe you have to start searching for a job again, the list goes on and on.               First and foremost always Thank God for a new week, no matter your situation, don't start your Monday with nagging or grumbling against God and your responsibilities. Speak positive words to your life, our God is the Alfa and omega. He alone knows you before you were conceived, he knows about your challenges, he knows your pains, all you need know and say is that God is in control! In the midst of your problem rejoice and be glad in him. Don't allow the devil boost over you,put the devil to shame by singing your heart out to the Lord.                All said and done, my earnest prayer is that God puts a smile on your face and make you a glorious vessel of honour in Jesus name

the warri neighbor

I went on holiday to warri, my cousin lives there and based on the gist have heard about warri ,I was so excited to visit the great waffi people's land and the main pidgin land Where pidgin English is spoken with swag and style.             My cousin had a very funny neighbor who would wake up very early in the morning humming Delta songs and after that he will Pray and report every one who had offended him many years ago,months ago,weeks ago and even the previous day to God and his children and wife kept shouting a resounding Amen to his prayers.,my cousin said she once heard her name in his prayer report to God and her offense was that she didn't greet him. His wife too would pray and report to God also,his children most times didn't have any one to report to God most times but on this particular day, one of the man's kids decided to report those who have offended him to God,he started thus, Oh Lord Jacob beat me for school Yesterday, o Lord May you beat am too"