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June: my month of smiles

If you are happy to see this month give me a smile. Smile because you made it this far, smile because you have another opportunity to make a difference, smile because you will surely overcome the challenges and come out a winner! Just smile because weeping may endure for a night but Joy cometh in the morning. Have a blissful month

Mother’s apron strings Prt1

When a man is tied to his mother’s apron strings should you leave the relationship or stay. In my own opinion, I would run as fast as my leg can take me. I believe marriage is for enjoyment and not for endurance. If you were to endure anything, it shouldn’t be a doting mother breathing down your neck all the time. It’s awful, he would listen to what his mum says all the time. Every decision will come with the #what will mummy think or do. No woman will be comfortable and happy in a home where she has to be subjected to a higher authority than that of her husband.  Everyday I see the disadvantage of ending up with mama’s boys. They feel their Mum’s meal taste better than that of their spouse. Yeah we know your mum is a renowned world cook and she cooked so well for your family while you were growing up, which is fine. What is not fine is when you start comparing your spouse meal to that of your mum.  Your mummy carried you for 9months, bla bla bla, your wife is gonna carry you,

Wedding party: the gluttons

I have had a lot going on lately, that’s why I haven’t been updating. However, Wedding party ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽˆ Gist is back and better. So on the 12th of this month, I attended a wedding at Abuja, karu precisely. There was no church wedding I guess they did the registry already. So that day was for the traditional marriage (popularly known as engagement by the yorubas) . The traditional marriage was supposed to start by 8, but it was raining so we had to chill because the venue for the engagement was outdoor, in a hotel premises, when the rain subsided the event kicked off. The engagement was anchored by @ https://www.instagram.com/alariina.alaga/  , the event was going on smoothly till the weather started to change, people started to pray so it doesn’t rain. I was like ๐Ÿ˜’, yo! I believe God is there to answer our every request no matter how flimsy they are but sometimes it’s good to cut Jesus some slacks and do the right thing, and the right thing should have been them getting a mini reception