Monday Delight :Self Love

Self-love use to mean being arrogant, selfish,conceited and feeling flawless.when someone showed or had the impression of having love for ones self many people took it to be a wrong thing to do.
        However, self love doesn't mean being arrogant, selfish and having vain pride,it simply means caring for yourself,respecting yourself and taking responsibility for yourself.
        Many people develop low self esteem when they get rejected by their loved ones,get hurt from their past relationships, experience physical and emotional torture n lots more.
        When you don't love yourself you become depressed,Weak,feel sorry for yourself, regret all your actions even if it was the right thing to do, unhappy, withdrawn from your daily activities etcetera.
         Moreover, if you love yourself you would be confident,strong, Happy,do extraordinary things because self love helps to bring the very best out of you.when you love yourself, even when you have a big scar on your face you still smile,even if you suffer from a dysfunction you still carry yourself in a beautiful way not minding What other people say or thing. It's a very beautiful thing to love yourself first.
 How To Get Your Groove Back Through Self-love 

  1. Care for yourself:  No matter how busy you May be, have a "me time" a time to pamper yourself and look beautiful.
  2. Do those things that make you Happy:.though those things that make us Happy can be really weird at times, who cares? Just do it. Shout, dance...
  3. Dress well: wear something that will make feel good and free,you don't have to copy anyone or dress to please anyone, it's not worth it. Dress well and feel fly😀
  4. Never ever do negative people: People who have negative things to say are not worth your self. Run away from that person who makes you feel inferior, if the class of your friend becomes too high, please change your class. 
  5. Serve and believe in God: take it or leave it, your first love is God. When you feel low,sad and depressed,simply go back to your first love.There is no friend like your Creator. When you have a personal relationship with your Creator, you get to know how wonderfully you were made and how unique you are.
  6. know your purpose: it is very important, when you know your purpose on earth, self love grows, you work towards achieving that purpose, once you know your purpose on earth you will strive to do your best to attain a great height! 
  7. What do you know how to do best: do you know how to sing,please sing ! Do you know how to cook or bake? Please start cooking, Are you good at planning events? Please go on! When you do those things you are good at it boost your self esteem.once you achieve your self esteem, self love is achieved too.
Love yourself and no one will ever bring you down! Remain fabulous!

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