THE INTERNET AND HYPOCRISY Part1

ladies and gentlemen, we all have a new community which we are all members. this community is the internet and many are joining this community daily, and everyone with their various reason for joining the community. people from different race, tribes, countries are bound together. someone in Nigeria can now conveniently be associated with someone in china and they can even develop intimate and cordial relationship. we have seen so many people getting married after meeting on the internet.
          Despite the beautiful relationships built and displayed on the internet, we should be careful and watch out for those things we see and the weight we should attach to them. the internet has now become a medium for people to flaunt what they don't have in reality. you have to be careful about what you wish for when you see things online. those beautiful pictures you see online don't depict the true nature of things really going on. That’s why I feel so sorry for people who have internet idols and depend on them.  You would be disappointed if you knew what was happening behind closed doors. That’s why I value the real bond I share with my family and I don’t wish for more, rather am always grateful for what we have and share.  
If you dont like what is going on in your family, then you have to strive to make it better. Like the saying goes “ all that glitters is not gold” so you have to be very careful.  If you want your family  or relationship to be gold and not glitter alone, then you have to work on it through prayers, forgiveness , love, tolerance and  patience. Don’t give up on your family and relationships today., you can make the best out of it. 
Don’t go by the internet family goals tags, relationship goals etc, it’s all for the grams. Focus on the real people who surround  you and act real with them.  Show them love, respect them, communicate with them, share your moments together. 
To me, family is everything. My friends are my family too that’s why I have a few.


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