University and the trauma

“I like you yemade and I would take good care of you if you would be my girlfriend, you won’t have to worry about your studies I would take care of it” those are the words of Mr ajelente, a senior lecturer at a university.  Most people think that ladies who dress in an attractive way are the only one who fall prey to this kind of randy lecturers , that is not true. From my experience and the series of testimonies I have heard, it is not true.
There are good lecturers who have the fear of God and there are bad lecturers as well who don’t see beyond the skirt of a lady. I want to encourage ladies to take their stand when they face such challenges.
You shouldn’t accept the general view of sexual harassment in the university as a normality, many see it as a normal thing. Hey girl! There is nothing normal about someone sexually harassing you, it’s your body dearie and you should use it for the glory of God.
There are some lazy girls who would gladly give themselves to these randy men, if you are in this category please desist. Respect your body and stop offering your precious body to men. You can work hard and make good grades on your own.
If any lecturer picks on you, pls do not accept. He will definitely offer empty promises, you should be smart enough to refuse his offer.
I will talk about guys too because they are also affected.
Check back for my personal experience with a senior lecturer during my diploma days. Bye sweethearts!!😁

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